I try to have a decent relationship with my ex even though we may not be together. Sometime it takes a lot of time after you break up to establish one, but I do try none the less. I hate having "hard feelings" with someone because you never know what may happen on any given day. If I have told you I loved you once in my life, there is NO WAY I can forget you.
I believe it is healthy to stay in good standings. I am not saying call/text everyday, no. Thats not fair to the partner your currently with but come'on, if we spent years together, it's not cool to never speak again because you can't get over something.
Just my thoughts.
agreed. that's a healthy stance for all relationships, but probably most relevant when a relationship changes (like a shift from romantic to platonic.) It's not easy, but its worth the effort and I think we become better people as a result of learning how to adapt ourselves to a new relationship with our ex-partner.
ReplyDeletePersonally I feel the expectations we had with our ex's, the dreams and plans we've made are a major reason when the break up occurs that so much bitterness and resentment exist. They aren't who we thought they were. But...are/were we? I totally agree with your statement If we once loved and shared so much with these people why wouldn't we keep close what attracted us in the first place? (Unless its soley "Physical") Love hurts sometimes even if its not supposed to, but in the end I feel its worth it because it just brings you closer to what you were looking for in the first place...Something Real! COREY eZUMGLEE FB FRIEND
ReplyDeleteNicely put! I agree with you totally Ms Marie! You never know,like the movie traffic,any person can be put on your road of life for any reason. But its so much greed & hate in the world,that most people focus on the bad that can-or-did happen,instead of the good that can come out of it,or the lessons learned along the way! -Jakia
ReplyDeleteThanks you guys
ReplyDeleteyou all have really good points and I enjoyed reading your comments!