This picture was a joke...I HAD to use it...if her weave looks like this...then yes. I Am on your side fellas....
One thing that will never cease to amaze me is how 'anti-fake' men are. Some, not all will not date women with weaves or extensions for example. Everyone knows a man loves au natural but come'on guys! We're women, and we like to play dress up now and again too! I believe if men had more choice in the cosmetics department they would understand that some of us...are only enhancing our natural beauty by adding extensions, wearing make-up, or getting our nails done.
However, it seems as though the same men who preach all natural is the way to be are the same men who can't stop staring at the overly done up woman with the D implants. Men are always quick to name of a slue of celebrity crushes as well...well, NEWSFLASH! it may not be as noticeable, but celebrities receive a number of procedures that change there natural looks. From lipo-Disolve, smart lipo, zerona, restylane, collagen fillers, chemical peels, veneers...and the list can go on and on without touching the invasive plastic surgery procedures, its very unlikely that your crush is who you perceive them to be!
My thought is that you should be happy your girl wears a few extensions now and then or a clip in or two! And hey...if it LOOKS real, whats the problem? you don't always have to run your hands through our hair!
You know I say this all the time-the REALEST women I know wear weaves, contacts, nails and push up bra's!
ReplyDeleteLove this blog!
I think there is an unrealistic expectation men have of women to always be "perfect" whatever that means. If we (men) would just focus on more enduring qualities there would be less pressure for women to alter themselves and become something that they are not. That said, there is always a place for cosmetics, weaves or extensions when done tastefully--and I think it shows a form of self-love that tells a man that his lady wants to look her absolute best for him...but that same guy has to love her in her raw state as well..flaws and all.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you Kevin.
ReplyDeletePeople need to focus on what's within, but you can sometimes get distracted when there are so many women "all done up!".
Some women feel intimidated and feel the pressures of having to look not only perfect, but perfect FOR HIM!