Ex marks the spot.

Ex's are Ex's FOR A REASON...SMH....it's a shame after all you've been through friendship still can't work out...what was the point of being so close for so long to just kick each other out of your life? waste.

I try to have a decent relationship with my ex even though we may not be together. Sometime it takes a lot of time after you break up to establish one, but I do try none the less. I hate having "hard feelings" with someone because you never know what may happen on any given day. If I have told you I loved you once in my life, there is NO WAY I can forget you.

I believe it is healthy to stay in good standings. I am not saying call/text everyday, no. Thats not fair to the partner your currently with but come'on, if we spent years together, it's not cool to never speak again because you can't get over something.

Just my thoughts.

No More Weave!!! Part 1

This picture was a joke...I HAD to use it...if her weave looks like this...then yes. I Am on your side fellas....

One thing that will never cease to amaze me is how 'anti-fake' men are. Some, not all will not date women with weaves or extensions for example. Everyone knows a man loves au natural but come'on guys! We're women, and we like to play dress up now and again too! I believe if men had more choice in the cosmetics department they would understand that some of us...are only enhancing our natural beauty by adding extensions, wearing make-up, or getting our nails done.

However, it seems as though the same men who preach all natural is the way to be are the same men who can't stop staring at the overly done up woman with the D implants. Men are always quick to name of a slue of celebrity crushes as well...well, NEWSFLASH! it may not be as noticeable, but celebrities receive a number of procedures that change there natural looks. From lipo-Disolve, smart lipo, zerona, restylane, collagen fillers, chemical peels, veneers...and the list can go on and on without touching the invasive plastic surgery procedures, its very unlikely that your crush is who you perceive them to be!

My thought is that you should be happy your girl wears a few extensions now and then or a clip in or two! And hey...if it LOOKS real, whats the problem? you don't always have to run your hands through our hair!

Shhhhh!...Don't Tell!

Relationships should never have to be kept a secret. If they do, or one of the persons requests you keep it on the hush...then there is a problem. I know this first hand because I was involved, for the first time this year in one. How real is the relationship if no one can know about it? And if you always have to keep you and him a secret...well...unfortunately it's because he's involved with different women. It's one thing for him to be weary about being in a relationship, especially if your guy is "high profile" but, if he is already calling you his woman (only to your face) then who the hell cares...maybe he shouldn't jump into things so fast or maybe he wants to live in a fantasy world...either way...I never want to be apart of that again...no fun. When you have a boyfriend you want to show him off, your glowing, and your so excited to embark on the journey...But how can you do that if in public your supposed to act like it all doesn't exist??? I'm still yet to find out. Just say no to the Shhhh!....Don't tell relationship!

Why is Ri Ri a WHORE?

So can anyone tell me why Ri Ri (aka Rhianna) is always advertised in the media as being a slut? From herpes, being a lesbian, to her ex in Barbados, to NBA players, Jay-Z and now Kanye???

Messin with Beyonce's man and now Amber??? SMDH....

Ri Ri you better watch it girl...Amber Rose seems like she can throw down...!

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhxRqirp3b8164ze5r

Men Lie, Women Lie

So a lot of men I talk to tell me that its in 'mans nature' to want multiple women. One guy even told me that it's not that they don't want to be with YOU it's just that they wanted that girl at that time. He said that many times when he's cheated he didn't care about the girl he cheated with so it wasn't that big of a deal. WELL....if you ask me it sounds like he didn't care much about the woman he cheated ON or he wouldn't have done it.

Could it be that there is a special person for each and every one of us and it's just a matter of time until we find that person. And until then, we shall forever be curious? Or, is it human nature to be greedy and just want more. Women always complain that there are no good men. How can that be possible?

Of course there are good men and maybe they are looking in the wrong places. Maybe men think there are no good women but just don't complain as much as women do...? Either way relationships are always up and down and divorce is at a peak in America...I think we all need to learn how to be alone first before we can be with someone else.

Pete Wentz (This Post is Random)

So, did ya'll check out Mediatakeout.com today?...what the hell is up with Pete Wentz and this fight of his...I know he is human but its always odd to see millionaires fighting...was it that serious?

http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/37709-breaking_news_somebody_bussed_rocker_pete_wentz_in_his_face_pics_of_him_all_bloody_inside.html

To Whom It May Concern

To whom it may concern: Ex's are meant to be ex's for a reason. I don't care if she is your best friend from way back or if you've known her all of your life...now; if you cared so much about her well being, then you wouldn't have cheated while you were together? Point 1. If you are in a current relationship with a woman and you have long term plans to be with her she should know your "friends" introduce her to the "ex" if she is a huge part in your life, don't hide her then. Point 2. Real men don't play games...especially with intelligent women b/c they will just uhm....how do i say this?....UP AND LEAVE YO" ASS...Point 3. And ladies...for the record...try your HARDEST to get your own so you will never have to depend on a man and deal with BULLSHIT such as ^^^...